At almost 10 months old, BabyC spends at least two hours per day in her
high chair. She loves finger foods
and takes her time with them. For
me, this is a great time to catch up on the dishes or work on preparing a meal,
all the while chatting with BabyC, replenishing her high chair tray, and
listening to some music together.
As much as I value that productive, multi-tasking time, I’ve been making
a real effort to prepare food for both of us and sit down to enjoy meals with
her. Due to his hectic work
schedule, my husband is rarely both home and awake during our meals, but we’re
sitting down to eat with Dad when we can, too. I want BabyC to know that mealtime is family time.
| BabyC examines the ingredients of lasagna, a dish we can both enjoy. BabyC now notices when I have something on my plate that she doesn’t have, so it is nice to eat the same foods. |
Next, I cut
the fruit open on the counter while BabyC watches. Then I show her the inside of the fruit and let her touch it
and smell it again. By this point,
BabyC is usually really excited and ready to eat. Finally, I cut the fruit into pieces that are a little more
manageable for her, and we both sit down to enjoy eating together. What a great way to engage all your
baby’s senses!
| If this was the first time you’d seen the inside of a cantaloupe, wouldn’t you be interested in exploring it further? |
We also had a 2- and a 4-year-old with us, and they loved checking out the veggies, especially hunting for ripe beets. (I’m not sure the beets were supposed to be u-pick, but how can you deny a 4-year-old that is really excited about beets?) BabyC had a great time, too.
I’m sure BabyC’s
understanding of where her food comes from is pretty rudimentary at this point,
but I like to think that there is now some wiring in her brain associating delicious
food with the texture of dirt and the fragrance of an orchard. In fact, I’m pretty sure that she
thinks dirt is a food right now, because it goes straight in her mouth.
Responsible
mama note: If you are going to do
some tasting of freshly-picked foods, be sure to check the farm’s policy on
spraying pesticides and choose an organic farm to be safe. Also, be aware that there are risks of foodborne
illness associated with eating even organic foods without washing them
first. This post depicts
irresponsible parenting behavior – eating produce fresh off the farm. I grew up on a farm where we ate
straight out of the garden all the time, but I should really take this more
seriously because I hate the thought of my kid getting sick! It is best to pick first and save the
tasting until both food and hands have been washed.
Thank you for your post. It's great that you're finding ways to introduce your child to new foods and family meal time as early as you are. With such good role models, these practices well set her up well for a lifetime of healthy eating habits!
ReplyDeleteThis is fantastic, Alice. Great pictures, great narrative and character. Well, and you're also my sister, and I love you.
ReplyDelete@Kiyah - Thanks! I'm pretty sure my parents instilled the same values in me and my brother when we were kids. I do think it makes a huge difference throughout our lives.
ReplyDelete@Jordan - Thanks for your sweet words. It really means a lot! I will always value your feedback!
We prioritize family dinners, too, and have since my now four year old was about your baby's age. I'm glad we did- I think it has started paying dividends.
ReplyDeleteWe've tried the gardening approach to introducing more veggies, too. So far, that has yet to pay any dividends beyond giving the grown ups more fresh produce to eat! But maybe it will when our kids our older.
I kind of love the "I'll have what MAMA is having!" and kind of wish I could eat my own damn meal sometimes. :) But Bug eats practically everything (today: very strong sheep cheese, soy yogurt, fresh peaches, half of my breakfast....) and it's a good encouragement to always have veggies for dinner!
ReplyDeleteJenny, I've discovered recently that BabyC is starting to prefer strong flavors too. I'd been going to all this trouble to pull food out from dishes before it is seasoned, but then she'll randomly eat some curry off my plate and want more, more, more! I'm trying to just feed her what I'm eating, within reason, and go with it. I love Bug's adventurous palate - how wonderful for a toddler!
ReplyDeleteReally like the new blog. Love the photos. Love that you grew up on a farm! A dairy one? Anyhow, I was born and raised in the Mid West next to a farm so am now day dreaming about a big red barn. Really, BabyC eats curry? Amazing!
ReplyDeleteI have three kids and I've never thought to let them touch the inside of a cantaloupe. What is wrong with me. I love that you are showing her where the food comes from too. So wonderful!
ReplyDeletep.s. I linked your post on my FB page if you want to see... :-)
https://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Miss-Elaine-ous-Life/146800262040669
Thanks for linking to me Elaine! That made my day! And I'm glad you liked my post - I love your blog too!
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